Gleams

 Adolescence is a time filled with dreams, aspirations, and the desire for independence. And I am sure a dozen teens out there eagerly anticipate the day when they will finally enter adulthood and embrace the freedoms and privileges it promises.  However, i will be point blank honest with you, adulthood like Nigerians would say, is a scam. The media, shows and all forms of online presence has made adulthood seem like the time where you have all the freedom you want. I'm an adult and I'll be honest  It's all a lie. I believe it is crucial for teens to develop realistic expectations about what lies ahead. In this article, I will explore the reasons why teenagers should approach adulthood with a balanced perspective, emphasising the importance of setting realistic goals and preparing for the challenges that come with growing up. 1. Idealised Expectations. When I was a teen, i often idealised adulthood, envisioning a life free from restrictions, responsibilities, and the gui...